Hi Hans,
I use the cross stop only when a project is long/wide enough to justify its use, otherwise, pencil lines will do the job. When I created this thread, it was the first time I tried using the cross stop with 4mm tenons (and then found out the cross stop didn't work with 4mm mortises, or, to some extent, even 5mm ones, even though the design should allow for the latter). For the last particular project, 24 4mm tenons (48 mortises) were eventually used. A work-in-progress shot:

As for the number of projects done using 5mm or 4mm tenons a year, 3 or 4 would be a reasonable estimate, though not every one may require the use of the cross stop. This is no different from whether or not the cross stop will be used with 6 or 8mm tenons. I do try to use the cross stop whenever possible to eliminate the tedious marking of placement lines, and avoid unnecessary errors.
The spring loaded pins haven't arrived yet, but hopefully they will sometime this month.