@Cheese Thanks for the info. Don’t know much about these fittings yet.
Do you set (expand) the fitting by tightening the hex stud prior to joining with the other piece of wood or do you just tighten the screw?
Looks like tightening the screw would tug the hex stud as the screw tries to get to the bottom of the depression in the stud but that seems a pretty indirect and weak way to set the fitting’s wings.
You have to domino out the mortise, then drill. After drilling you can set the fitting into the mortise. I've found that you should make sure to give it an extra tap; otherwise it can pull out a bit proud the surface. At that point, you can put the hex stud in that receives the set screw, and it pulls on the keystone-like anchor spreading the wings. They are in very solidly at that point, and will not come out without damaging the surrounding wood.
I've found it a bit annoying that you can not safely remove the hex stud, because the keystone might get lost in the mortise and you'll not be able to put it back. It would be much nicer if there was something in back that would retain it in an approximate position; so that you could assemble then knock things down without having the hardware sticking out.